Is there? "Love without sex or sex without love"

Nevertheless, reciprocity must be even in the sensitive case - as a partnership in bed. Of course, adapt, and even fall in love with "just perfect lover, you can, but family life is not built only on sex, although there are those whom the family is not necessary - the benefit of their units.



Here's a more common problem encountered by both men and women - is frigidity or passivity is beloved.



Compare some of the cases of non-ideal pairs:



She does not like - he loves, with great sex. This couple will last long, because the sex did not detain the woman, and great sex with the unloved is always the case only at the beginning, then she will want to have warm-heartedness with love, which she herself wish to experience.



He loves - she "loves", but do not want to have sex, why not call out. Dear ladies, men may experience health problems on the background of your frigidity, in extreme cases, you are separating.



She likes - he likes to say that he loves and enjoys her love. These consumers also themselves and are in bed, preferring to pose rider, otherwise they are not something that is not strong, but applying any effort do not want. A woman only, and remains, that enjoy at least some affinity with the beloved, though she will get satisfaction from sex for long with this, though beloved, but still a passive lover.



She loves - He frankly did not like, but necessary to someone, when you want. Here, you'll never guess, because he can quickly satisfy their lust and, turning to the wall, sleep, or maybe the whole night to satisfy their desires, from which you will only be delighted.

On the problems of impotence - a separate conversation, here and help is needed otherwise, medical.



Perfect union is, of course, when both of the pair approached as a spiritual and physical terms, when they can not discuss the complex problems not only at work, but intimate. Of course, it is already high bar of confidence, but if you reach out to her together, presenting each other with mutual caresses, it might be expected to a strong family.

Indeed, many family problems arise because of misunderstandings and divergent views and interests of spouses, when one prefers to be just above, the second may be a "detriment to the rights, and then eventually just get used to it and sits down on his neck.



Through sex you can understand how a man relates to your relationship, but certainly there are exceptions, which should take an objective.



So what postures chosen by men? Something can be found on the Internet:



Horsewoman

Men usually only "yes" when a woman takes the initiative in their hands. If a couple in most cases the preferred rider position, it may indicate that the pair was a change of roles. Sexologists believe that a woman who manifested themselves in an active role, may unconsciously associate themselves with a man. In other words, afraid to lose control of his hands.



Some of the men themselves want to "eternal rest", straining only one important "muscle".



Conservator

He likes the missionary position. In itself, this posture is not a diagnosis. It is important to observe the other: if a partner so quickly reaches finale and leaves you, it means that he tends to quickly get what they want. If you received a copy of sluggishness, which is simply afraid to try alternative poses, just days before the time when you get bored - sex and the man with whom he was.



Well, if in a fit of passion, that was cast on the shoulders of his legs, "eye to eye", then it also has its own charm and women sometimes prefer this way.



Rear

Your man likes to keep things under control. It is likely that he just knows about the magic point G, where stimulation is most effective in this position. But according to some sources, so love to have sex by men who prefer not to see a woman in the eye.

But in fact - standing just more convenient.



Side by side

If a man loves to lay on your side during the act of love, it means he loves comfort and measured. We enjoy the slow-moving and unhurried development of relations.

And in general - in the morning is not even bad start with this posture morning sex.

All in one

If a man is not inclined to stop at a convenient position for him while watching your reactions and takes into account your preference is - you can be envied: your partner - the ideal lover.



Or just trying to please in every way, and for what purpose - one he knows.

Please remember that no matter what your union if you want serious and long-term relationship - talking about the problem, even if they do not, openly, without embarrassment, gently, and preferably after sex.



For example, ask about the blowjob, which you are doing, you feel perfectly, like whether he or a partner he would prefer to correct something.



Criticism of your and your partner should be seen only with the understanding and talking about it should be delicately. When we are silent, we gather in his dissatisfaction, because of which a partner may feel complexes. Decide together, and then your sex life will be improved each time.